The supermoon of belonging

The supermoon of belonging

Yesterday I phoned my uncle who’s in hospital in Canada. We talked for about five minutes before I could hear exhaustion creeping into his voice. He laughed at my silly jokes and he was genuinely happy that my father’s back pain had subsided even though there...
Love clutter

Love clutter

Yesterday I took the train back from a meeting in the city. The suburbs that I usually drive through looked different from the higher position of the train. The train weaves behind the suburban scenes yellowed by winter leaves. I mused about how I see this city anew...
Tragedy encourages us to reach out to others

Tragedy encourages us to reach out to others

”There is a reason the word belonging has a synonym for want at its center; it is the human condition.”  Jodi Picoult Vanishing Acts There are few thoughts about belonging in my head today and, frankly, writing about belonging after 298 innocent adults and...
Inukshuk of belonging

Inukshuk of belonging

Me and my trusty, ever ravenous English Springer Spaniel Kibo set out on a walk in the winter sunshine yesterday. The dry leaves and cool-ish breeze reminded me of a fall day in Ontario. We were looking for Victoria Park on Brisbane’s north side. We were searching for...
Feeling the fear & pursuing belonging anyway

Feeling the fear & pursuing belonging anyway

”I’ve learned to welcome that fear — paddle into it — whenever I recognize it. Why? Because that territory is where adventure and discovery live.’’ Ron MacLean, GrubStreet   Here in Australia it’s NAIDOC week. It just happens to coincide with...
Do I belong in Canada?

Do I belong in Canada?

”The whole object of travel is not to set foot on foreign land; it is at last to set foot on one’s own country as a foreign land.’’  Gilbert K. Chesterton   Where to start? Now that my body has wandered past the numbed point of other-side-of-the-world jet...
Visiting Toronto and finding it gone

Visiting Toronto and finding it gone

”Are not all our lives a movement from order to disorder, which in turn evolves into a new order?’’ Jean Vanier Becoming Human It’s been five years since I was last in Toronto. I get off the streetcar under a mesh of streetcar wires in the downtown area and...
Love items of belonging

Love items of belonging

”Push it. Examine all things intensely and relentlessly.” Annie Dillard The Writing Life   In a week I’ll be boarding the plane and heading to Toronto via Sydney and LA. I’ll have about 20 flying hours to think about my journey of belonging in...
Are we dolphins in captivity bound by unwritten rules?

Are we dolphins in captivity bound by unwritten rules?

”Do not hurry; do not rest.” Goethe   I’m standing on the shores of Moreton Bay Island (Quandamooka) looking at Brisbane lights across the bay. That city still does not pull me. Does not feel like home. It’s a strange experience to stand on an island...
Daunted by belonging

Daunted by belonging

”It is the sense of belonging that I miss, together with infusions of historical awareness and sensuality.” Jan Morris Home Thoughts from Abroad   I’m four months into my experiment on belonging and it’s only now that I’m realising the enormity of my...
Gratitude for connecting with new people

Gratitude for connecting with new people

”Do all you can with what you have in the time you have, in the place you are.’’  Xolani Nkosi Johnson, age 11 (1990-2001) I hit a low point last weekend. I caught myself thinking thisis never going to work. I’m not going to be able to connect with this place...
Missing mum on Mother’s Day

Missing mum on Mother’s Day

”I love you across the river and over the hills,’’ Sam McBratney, Guess How Much I Love You   My husband wonders if I miss him when he’s away on his whirlwind round-the-world business trips. It’s a tricky question. I’ve been letting it roll around my...