Random conversations: close the gap

Random conversations: close the gap

I’ve been in Sydney the last couple of days, interviewing people about belonging and taking a writing course. When I travel — and this includes going to the local library or grocery store — I like to talk to people. I’m an extrovert in the sense that I...
How an asylum seeker convinced me to become Australian

How an asylum seeker convinced me to become Australian

I could have applied for Australian citizenship several years ago. I’m Canadian, I’ve been living in this country since 2002, and I’m a permanent resident. My children are Australian and my husband has become an Aussie too. Something fundamental held me back. Last...
Three ways to turn the bad ”news” blues into inspiration

Three ways to turn the bad ”news” blues into inspiration

It doesn’t seem to matter where we are in the world, if we focus on the ”news’’, it’s easy to  despair at events and lose hope in humanity. UK philosopher Alain de Botton says the news plays with our emotions, sparking fear and anger and then ”exploits our...
How catastrophe gives us a taste for belonging

How catastrophe gives us a taste for belonging

Three years ago, I spent several days bent over a bucket cleaning river mud and bacteria-filled slime off Christmas tree decorations, golf clubs and the personal contents of half a house. They were not our possessions and it wasn’t our house that was flooded when the...
Chocolate truffles of belonging

Chocolate truffles of belonging

Building a new website is a lot like moving house. You wander through the rooms, taking in years of living and then pick out a small closet and start sorting the clothes that no longer fit your personality. Ok I admit it. I’m not building my new website, someone else...
Belonging in Our Bodies

Belonging in Our Bodies

January is over and I’m wondering how your New Year’s resolution is coming along? Did you make one? I didn’t. I was having too much fun playing in Canada to think ahead to 2015. Lately though, as I coax my brain back towards thinking (not unlike my children who went...
How to Become Australian – Part 1

How to Become Australian – Part 1

1. Be Feisty. Ok. Australians aren’t that feisty in general, but some are. And they’re the ones I admire. 2. How to be Feisty in a Non-Feisty Country. Australia Day, or Invasion Day, has come and gone. Last year I made an effort to celebrate it and while I...
Snowflakes of Hope

Snowflakes of Hope

Voici mon secret. Il est trés simple : on ne voit bien  qu’avec le coeur. L’essentiel est invisible pour les yeux.  Antoine de Saint-Exupéry Le Petit Prince The holiday is over. Suitcases unpacked. Mounds of winter clothes lounge in the laundry with the overbearing...
The silence of snow

The silence of snow

When I’m sitting at my desk, sweating in the subtropics in December or January and I think of snow, I would recall the smell of snowflakes, the texture and the temperature. Yesterday (after Brisbane – Sydney – Dallas -Toronto) I stood outside my parent’s...
Packing & unpacking

Packing & unpacking

As I pack up clothes and dolls and passports for our family I can’t help but reflect that some people don’t have the luxury of packing. That I shouldn’t see packing as stressful because packing means I have choice and many people don’t. Some people may not be able to...
How important is culture in belonging?

How important is culture in belonging?

This week I had my own nugget of belonging, a whisper of connection. I was doing some research for the writer in residence program I want to set up at a school for migrant and refugee children when I met a young woman. We smiled, shook hands, and had a brief...