The magic of belonging

The magic of belonging

Belonging is the most compelling question of the 21st century. Just look at the data. We have a record number of expats and immigrants across the world and those numbers are increasing every year. We also have the largest number of refugees, asylum seekers and...
How to make meaning in a mobile life

How to make meaning in a mobile life

This started as a simple project in January 2014. A quiet search for a sense of belonging here in my fourth country, Australia. But like all significant projects it has changed me and over the months it has changed as well. I’ve become passionate about...
Butterflies of Ideas

Butterflies of Ideas

J’ai des amis à découvrir et beaucoup de choses à connaître Antoine de Saint-Exupéry Le Petit Prince Yesterday as I drove down the highway, I noticed lots of butterflies dancing in the air on the sides of the roads, over fields and buildings and above the cars. I...
Alain de Botton: philosopher & writer

Alain de Botton: philosopher & writer

A few months ago I met author Alain de Botton in Brisbane and asked him about belonging. Being a jet-lagged philosopher he wanted time to ponder this question and suggested I email him. I had been saving this quote, this nugget of belonging, and now that I’ve come...
Merlinda Bobis: poet, writer, performing artist

Merlinda Bobis: poet, writer, performing artist

Yesterday as I was driving my daughter to ballet, I put on some music by Francis Cabrel, which I hadn’t heard in a while. The French lyrics, the inflection, the flow of the phrases and the cadence of the words wove through me, lifting me up out of the car of suburbia...
Dinah Roma: poet & scholar

Dinah Roma: poet & scholar

Poetry has long been used to search out and understand who we are and our place in the world. Concepts and emotions are whittled to their essence by the selection and sparsity of words, by sheeting together thoughts in a unique way so we are forced to slow down and...
Lisa Southgate: writer & playwright

Lisa Southgate: writer & playwright

Here, in a few beautiful sentences, Australian writer Lisa Southgate unknots the messy shoelaces of belonging and home. Perhaps the feeling of home is as unattainable as a feeling of real belonging especially when so many of us are part of what Pico Iyer calls the...
How belonging makes you smarter

How belonging makes you smarter

After months of working on my belonging project here in my fourth country, I’ve realized that belonging is fundamental to finding meaning in life. It’s such a basic human need that it pops up everywhere, even in my IQ, and yours. Yet in this age of individualism and...